How to protect children from addiction?

Maybe that mobile should belong to the elder son who is taking the exam. He didn't care how the new school was, whether it had the necessary facilities for his son, what the teachers were like, what the condition of the classroom was. The son took the exam, the mother ran the mobile and returned home.

According to a student of class 9, his mother plays games on her mobile. She is so addicted to mobile that she tells her son not to play the game if he wants to win. If the son loses the game, the mother should be beaten. According to another parent, he had to go to Pokhara from Kathmandu for work. As he will be alone, his son says to give him the mobile phone and go, otherwise he will get bored. He bought a new mobile phone for himself and gave it to him on the condition that he would only use it for two hours a day.

When the mother returns after a week, the son is so addicted to the mobile phone that no reaction is seen when the mother comes home. The son who used to hug and love when he returned home from abroad, and looked at the bag to see what he had brought, now has no enthusiasm. After realizing that the son was damaged by the mobile phone, the mother went to the shop and sold the mobile phone in front of the son. Now that son is as loving and supportive as before.

A sister has a son. One day, while watching TV, the light went out, he asked for a mobile phone, but when his mother did not give it, he angrily left the house and walked out. She was very worried about her son studying in class 7. However, she breathed a sigh of relief only after her son came home.

Most of the children are falling into the trap of using social networks like Messenger, Facebook, Viber, Instagram, WhatsApp because of the fact that they have mobile phones in their hands. This has led to an increase in the incidence of sexual violence among teenagers. Excessive use of mobile phones has led to problems such as aggressiveness, monotony, and not blending in with the society. Some have health complications.

Now some students are waiting for their final exam results while others have already published their exam results. During this month, students are wasting their precious time using mobile phones. Some students are going home in their village and getting new experience. People are realizing how much they have to struggle to join hands.

While asking questions orally to students studying in class 6, he said that no one has seen more than he has seen Panighat. Rather than which games you play on your mobile phone, only five or six names were taken. Even now, both old and new technologies are being used in the villages, but even though the students know something about the new technologies, they have no knowledge of the old technologies. Even if you can tell from rice than what rice is made from, you can't tell from what rice is made from paddy.

If you study by seeing directly with your eyes than by speaking, listening, reading, it will be easier to understand and will be remembered for a long time. If you are in the city and have a house or relatives in the village, this free time is very good to send the children for a few days. By doing this, they get to enjoy a different, clean, green environment. Big cities including the capital have been built without planning. There is no free space for children to play outside the house, there is a lack of open spaces. As a result, children of walking and playing age are lazy due to lack of physical exercise.

Children must be taken to a new place during the holidays. They are learning a lot in a new environment. They should buy stories, poems, picture books according to their interest, play indoor and outdoor games of their choice. Enrolling in classes that teach creative skills like music, dance, arts, etc. will reveal hidden talents. Every parent should try to understand children, give time, listen, and reduce stress. If you sit with your children and watch movies that give them knowledge, cook your favorite food, teach you how to cook, give lots of love, if you fall into trouble, leave the house and take bad actions, they will stop by themselves.

It is not only the job of parents to give birth to children, it is a great duty to raise them by giving them good education. It is an important responsibility of parents to feed their children healthy home cooked food rather than expired market packed food. Parents should not forget that eating junk food by eating it in gadgets and piling it up in one place will lead to disease in the future. Not only at home, but also in the school canteen, instead of noodles, choumin, masham, samosa cooked in oil for a long time, fruit, vegetables, potato-puri, gram-bread, kheer, egg, fish-meat, corn-soybean, wheat halwa are sent from home as tiffin. Children are not malnourished. If the children's future is made by the parents' small efforts, they should not hold back to fulfill it. As children's first school is their home, their first teacher is their parents. Children who have learned good manners from home do not suffer and do bad things wherever they go.

This year alone, 37,000 couples have divorced in Nepal. Children who are sad and afraid when their parents have a small fight in the family, how would they feel if their parents separate? Parents who neglect their children must understand. We have been seeing at home-society, in school, in hostels that the behavior of children who live with others is a little different than that of their parents. Children who are far away from their parents do more activities like not fearing others, being weak in reading, not giving importance to studies, being bullies, and falling into bad habits. Therefore, the first responsibility of raising children with good culture and education is the responsibility of parents.